A Person, Not Answers

May 29, 2014 — 6 Comments

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The Bible offers no escape from the problem of suffering. And no easy answers for the pain we experience in this world.

Don’t get me wrong—it has plenty to say on the subject. It tells us that suffering builds character, turns us to God, and even brings redemption. But ultimately Scripture presents no philosophical formula explaining why we suffer.

Even the book of Job, a veritable suffering saga, is silent on the topic. Job’s friends offer their beleaguered buddy various explanations, but they’re all wrong. And when God finally shows up, it’s not to answer questions.

This can be frustrating, especially for those of us drawn to life’s big questions. We want to know why. Yet for people in the throes of suffering, the Bible offers something much different than an answer—it offers a Person.

The Bible tells us we’re not alone, no matter how deep our suffering. The writer of Hebrews describes Jesus as our High Priest who can “empathize with our weaknesses” (4:15). This is crucial. Identifying with someone’s pain requires that you have at least some experience of their suffering. The very word compassion comes from the Latin compassio, which literally means “to suffer with.” Only one willing to suffer truly has compassion.

On his 39th birthday, poet Christian Wiman was diagnosed with an incurable form of blood cancer. He wrote frankly about the agonizing effects of his illness and the treatments.

I have had bones die and bowels fail; joints lock in my face and arms and legs, so that I could not eat, could not walk . . . I have passed through pain I could never have imagined, pain that seemed to incinerate all my thoughts of God and to leave me sitting there in the ashes, alone.

When the diagnosis came, Wiman was a rising star in the literary world and editor of Poetry, the world’s most prestigious poetry publication. Though Wiman confessed his Christian faith had “evaporated in the blast of modernism and secularism to which I was exposed in college,” the diagnosis started a journey that ultimately led him back to God. It wasn’t a particular doctrine that drew him back to the faith. Even the resurrection, he admits, is a struggle for him to accept. But Wiman found a friend in the suffering Messiah.

I am a Christian because of that moment on the cross when Jesus, drinking the very dregs of human bitterness, cries out, My God, my God, why has thou forsaken me. . . . The point is that God is with us, not beyond us, in suffering. I am a Christian because I understand that moment of Christ’s passion to have meaning in my own life, and what it means is that the absolute solitary and singular nature of extreme human pain is an illusion. I’m not suggesting that ministering angels are going to come down and comfort you as you die. I’m suggesting that Christ’s suffering shatters the iron walls around individual human suffering.

In the face of brutal, isolating pain we don’t really want answers. We want a person. At such times there is simply no substitute for the presence of Christ.

* This post was excerpted from Yawning at Tigers: You Can’t Tame God, So Stop Trying
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Drew Nathan Dyck is managing editor of Leadership Journal and author of Yawning at Tigers (2014) and Generation Ex: Christian (2010)

6 responses to A Person, Not Answers

  1. Well said. I love the Wiman quote.

    Children who cry out for their mothers (and fathers) when they get sick at night know well the value of comforting presence. As our Heavenly Father, God suffers with us at our bedside.

  2. Wow Drew..awesome article-loved it..great encouragement

  3. Thanks Tony and Shaun! Glad the post resonated with you guys.

  4. I work with sexually abused girls in Guatemala. When they ask me why, I tell them I have no idea. When they ask me where was God, I say right there. Suffering the same thing as it happened to you. “Whatever you have done to the least of these you have done to me.” Jesus’ suffering did not stop on the cross.

  5. Wow. That’s heartbreaking, Corbey. And powerful. Thank you for your incredibly important work.

  6. As a chaplain in the world of hospice- I really appreciate the value of presence- God’s presence of being there within the season of time. Like many in pastoral care roles, His presence in suffering is calming and powerful- not necessarily in that order.

    Thank you Drew for great insight!

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